I talked to Aaron again. He was just getting ready to go to sleep after what sounds like a very eventful day. After the visit from the commandant of the Marines, he had several tests done including having two ophthalmologists take a look at his eye, which we thought had shrapnel in it. There is good news to report there in that they did not find any debris lodged in his eye, only a place where he had some abrasions. Those appear to have healed well and the doctors told him his double vision should go away soon without any surgery. One less surgery is always good news!
I had a chance to visit with Aaron for a half hour or so, and he is in really good spirits. He said today a Marine who was injured in Afghanistan and lost his leg in almost the same place as Aaron came to see him. Aaron said that when the guy walked in the room, he couldn't tell there was anything wrong with him because he walked so naturally. Aaron and this guy talked for a while, and he told Aaron that once he learns to use a prosthesis, he will be able to do anything he wants from playing football to swimming to running a marathon if that interests him. It sounds like it was very encouraging to Aaron. Plus, Aaron said the prosthetic leg the guy had was "awesome looking."
Aaron is already making steps towards being able to be somewhat indepedent. He told me that today he took himself off of the pain-regulation system that allows him to hit a button for morphine anytime he wants. Now he has to request pain medication, which will be freely given to him. But he said he wants to start moving away from being drugged all the time and doesn't want to become dependent on the medication. He also said he has been figuring out how to move himself short distances such as from a bed to a gurney or a wheelchair, and that is encouraging to him because he said he figures the sooner he can move on his own, the sooner he can start rehabilitation. His insistence on doing that today had put him in a little bit of pain tonight, but he said he had requested and received medicine for it and wasn't hurting too badly.
So, on a good note, we come to the end of the first full week since the attack. It is hard to believe that it has only been one week. Time has taken on a very distorted quality since this happened, and it has certainly been the longest week of my life. I'm sure the rest of the family feels the same way. But we are thankful for the many mercies we have seen unfold even in the midst of this dark and difficult time. Aaron is with family, alive and awake and optimistic, and for that we thank God.
Again, we cannot thank you all enough for your love and prayers for us. Please continue to pray tonight for Aaron to have as little pain as possible, for the family to be able to rest, and for a good day tomorrow.
For tonight, I wanted to leave y'all with the words of a hymn that has always been very dear to me. In fact, it was sung at mine and Dan's wedding. Lately, it has come to take on even deeper meaning for me than it had before, especially the second and third verses.
Like a river glorious is God's perfect peace
Over all victorious in its bright increase.
Perfect, yet it floweth fuller every day.
Perfect, yet it groweth deeper all the way.
Stayed upon Jehovah, hearts are fully blessed
Finding, as He promised, perfect peace and rest.
Hidden in the hollow of His blessed hand
Never foe can follow, never traitor stand.
Not a surge of worry, not a shade of care,
Not a blast of hurry touch the spirit there.
Stayed upon Jehovah, hearts are fully blessed,
Finding, as He promised, perfect peace and rest.
Every joy or trial falleth from above,
traced upon our dial by the Sun of love.
We may trust him fully, all for us to do.
They who trust Him wholly find him wholly true.
Stayed upon Jehovah, hearts are fully blessed,
Finding, as He promised, perfect peace and rest.
And all of God's people can say AMEN!
Goodnight, dear ones.

Comments (10)
Hey Haley! I was looking through the Snapshot section of your website and I saw the pictures from Aaron and Kelly's wedding! They are such great people it is hard thinking of them in the situation they are in. They seem to be doing great under the circumstances, though! I love you all!
Posted by Adrian | March 25, 2005 7:07 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 19:07
Haley,
Thanks for the updates. Tell Aaron I am thinking about him everyday. I wish him a speedy recover and I look foward to seeing him soon.
Posted by Uncle Jimmy Wayne | March 25, 2005 7:09 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 19:09
Haley,
Amen! Our God is awesome! It is wonderful to see how He has answered prayers for Aaron so far. You have experienced the joy of seeing how far Aaron has come. You have definitely experienced the trial in all you have gone through this past week and will continue to go through. It is comforting to know that you all have that peace and rest that only comes from above. Continue to rest in Him and He will give you all you need to get through this.
Thank you for keeping us so well informed. Your detailed writings help us know how to pray for Aaron and your whole family. Love, Aunt Julie
Posted by Aunt Julie | March 25, 2005 7:38 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 19:38
I just wanted to let you all know that you are in my constant prayers and thoughts. If there is anything that I can do for you here Let me know
Rebecca Watkins (Wife of SSGT Richard Watkins)
Posted by Rebecca Watkins | March 25, 2005 8:05 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 20:05
Haley,
It's been too long since I have talked to you although I keep up with you pretty well through this site. I have begun typing in this box so many times in the past, but I always though "well I'll just give her a call...". Since Brian told me about Aaron last Sunday, I have been wishing I could have made first contact under better circumstances. Now the only thing to say that seems relevant is that Jessica and I are praying for Aaron and your family.
Posted by Adam M. White | March 25, 2005 8:30 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 20:30
Hailey,
Your updates are so helpful to those of us praying for your family. How awesome it is that God equipped you with the gifts and resources to get these updates out. They mean so much to all of us waiting for more news. Please let Aaron, Kelly, Debbie and Randy know that we
love them.
Andrew & Deanna Rush
Posted by Deanna Rush | March 25, 2005 10:12 PM
Posted on March 25, 2005 22:12
Aaron,
All of us at Oak Grove High School are praying for you and thinking about you. I am so thankful for all the miracles your dad has related to me. I truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, as I have witnessed in my own life. Get well soon, and come back to visit us at the Grove - we truly love you!
PS If you are bored, I can send you a good geometry book and some worksheets
Love
Joyce Deer
Posted by Joyce Deer | March 26, 2005 9:41 AM
Posted on March 26, 2005 09:41
Are all Rices so tenacious? : ) Haley, your updates are great. Keep 'em coming.
Posted by Rebecca | March 26, 2005 3:24 PM
Posted on March 26, 2005 15:24
Yeah, we have a pretty broad streak of hardheadedness in the family, Becca. It's kind of our signature thing. I think that's why both of the boys gravitated to the Marines and I'm a newspaper reporter. :) Love you, hug Livia for me.
Posted by Haley | March 26, 2005 4:03 PM
Posted on March 26, 2005 16:03
Hug, check.
Email me your phone number so I can call you next week. Happy Easter, dear friend.
Posted by Rebecca | March 26, 2005 7:56 PM
Posted on March 26, 2005 19:56